| Location | Earls Colne Essex |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 3/2006 |
| Date of Death | 3/2007 |
| Visitors | 2,909 since 07/02/2008 |
| Creator |
Alfie
died on 5th march 2007 five days before his first bday.
Brother to lewis and harry.
died of menigoccal septicemia.
My beutiful little man was taken so cruely from us i still cant believe he is not here with us anymore. It all happen so quickley he went down for his morning sleep and when he woke he had changed. He was hot and eally sleepy and just wantd to be cuddled by his mummy or daddy nothing could have ever prepared me for what was going to happen. It got to the evening and he still had not improved so i took him to accident and emergency where they saw us quickly they gave him some medicine and his temperture went down they were going to send us home but me and a nurse noticed these purple marks on his chest thats when suddenly we were surronded by doctors putting drugs and fluids in to him. they asked me to leave the room so they could put him into a coma and when i came back he was covered from head to toe with this rash i couldnt look at him i was so scared for him his dad then arrived at the hospital i dont think he could believe what was going on we were both in complete shock. they had to call in a specialist team called CATS who transfer sick children to other hospitals they took us to ST Marys in london in the early hours of sunday morning the whole time this rash was get more darker almost black like blood blisters all over his body and he was so swollen to double his size. Alfies organs started to fail and he had to go on dialsis. I still could not go in the room he was in and i feel like such a failure as his mummy i should have been there for him but i was so scared he had both his nanns his grandad and his daddy with him. Alfie went down hill fast they done tests on his brain in the early hours of monday morning to find that his brain had died i held him untill his heart stopped beating. This was the saddest most hardest day of my entire life. Nearly one year on and im still reliving that day that nightmare that will never go i miss my little man so much. He was so lovely so cheeky a real mummys boy he was a terrible sleeper but i now think that he wanted to spend more time with us . His brothers miss him dearly. I lay awake at night thinking about him and what he would be doing now. I hope he is happy in heaven with all the other angel babys. Alfie sleep tight and keep the stars shinning bright we love and miss you always. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
my heart goes out to every parent that has lost a child
For Alfie xx
For Angel Alfie, Know that God has you in heaven & that he is keeping you safe.
Your family misses you more than words can explain, Until they are in heaven with you, their hearts will be peaceful. But know that there is not one day that goes by, Without memories of you, that come to their minds.. On what you would be doing at the time in life, But When ever they think of you and tears come out. Angel go over and give them a little hug, And sit on their shoulder or on their hands until they're tears stop, then watch them from a cloud up in heaven.
Your Presence here on Earth will never be faint from memory as it is imprinted in their hearts. God bless You angel, keep all the other angels in heaven comfort & happy xx Until Your Family meets you in heaven, Watch over them everyday xx
hey gorgeous boy hope you and ronnie are safe and warm
kisses loves and hugs to you both
love auntie zoe (ronnies mummy)
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Hello there
It’s been a long time since I popped by through one thing and another but I always think about you and Jamie and all you other angel friends playing. I hope you are all having fun up there. Have a lovely day Alfie, you are so beautiful. Love Pamela xxxxxxxxxxx
aww so cute
hiya gawjuzz hope you havin a great time with samuel n liam up in heaven just dont get up to mischeave lol. so young to die to cute to die. miss by all what eva new you
sweet dreams love you xox
My son also had this terrible disease at 6 months old. After being sent home by the GP and being told I was just being a over protective mother of her 1st child, I didn't listen & took him to Colchester Gen where they ran some tests overnight and sent us home to London the following day.
When he wasn't any better I took him to my own GP and an ambulance was called immediately as the results had reached my doctors. He had Meningococcal Scepticema.
My son was in Oldchurch hospital and kept segregated from everyone else. Even some of the staff were too scared to come into his room!
Thankfully, being the 'over-protective mother of her 1st child' I had caught it early and he was let home after a week with a nurse visiting everyday for another week with a machine for his anti-biotics.
I am so sorry for your loss, to lose a child has to be the worst thing in the world.
I hope your little man is watching over you and your family and having fun playing in the clouds with all the other Angels.
My love to you & your family
xx
thinking of you always
hello my sweet little man sorry i havnt left a message in a while i wanted you to no that you are always in my mind from the moment i wake till i go to bed i lie awake at night thinking of you its so hard i miss you dearly. you are such a big part of our family that is missing. I often think what you would be like now . Lewis and Harry miss you lots i think its been hard for them to understand why you were taken from us. i hope you are happy playing in heaven with all the other little children. love you always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
CONGRATULATIONS
HELLO KATIE SAM JUST GAVE ME YOUR GOOD NEWS CONGRATULATIONS I KNOW YOUR NERVES WILL BE SHATTERED AND YOUR WORRYING ENDLESS I WENT THROUGH THE SAME I NEARLY LOST EMMA A FEW TIMES THEN SHE SURVIVED A PLACENTA ABRUPTION I BELIEVE SHE MADE IT AS SHE HAD AN ANGEL WATCH OVER HER NOTHING WILL TAKE AWAY THE WORRY OR STRESS BUT IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT WHEN YOU SEE YOUR NEW BABY IN YOUR ARMS IM STILL NERVOUS WATCHING EMMA AND I SUPPOSE THATS THE WAY IT WILL ALWAYS BE BUT SHE IS WELL WORTH IT WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY BUT FAILING MISERABLY IS EVERYTHING WILL BE OK JUST TRY AND RELAX AND DONT STRESS YOURSELF OUT SENDING YOU AND YOUR FAMILY MY LOVE XX
babies are angels
babies are angels
that fly to earth
their wings disappear
at the time of ther birth
one look in their eye
and we're never the same
they're part of us now
and that part has a name
that part is your heart
and a bond that wont sever
our babies are angels
and we love them forever
im so sorry i know what ur going through i ad to watch my son connor earnshaw die and it was the worst time of my life i hope they are both happy playin together
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